Basically, there are two trains of thought regarding the question of whether to correct mistakes. Some say yes, others say no.
The long and short of it is non-native speakers will always make some mistakes, which they cannot always correct by themselves.
Actually, you should take into consideration the purpose of the communication. What is the goal of the speaker? Does he want to learn English (and is practicing) or is he trying to communicate in order to meet an objective or to function in the real world?
In fact, it is possible that he may be trying to do both.
The bottom line is some people are made uncomfortable by corrections which point out their inability to use the language correctly. While others feel sad if you don’t correct them because they feel like they have lost a valuable opportunity to learn.
In a nutshell some people are more thick-skinned than others (less sensitive, less easily hurt). While others may need to be handled with kid gloves (gently, carefully).
It boils down to compassion and human decency. Sometimes letting errors pass, will help the non-proficient speaker by letting him save face. (not be embarrassed by his mistakes).
Cutting to the chase you have to know your student. If your student follows the philosophy “fake it until you make it” (acts as if he knows what he is doing until it becomes second nature to him, until he achieves success), then he will probably not appreciate instruction or interference from you because he will not like you pointing out his shortcomings and thereby making him feel like a failure.
Fundamentally, we have to decide by, in essence, making a cost-benefit analysis of the situation.
Summing up some learners can handle criticism and welcome it, while others can’t and don’t.
As for me, corrections are always welcome.
Hi folks, today I’m going to introduce you our new collaborator. Adam participates in a lot of activities: he works in a law firm, is one of the administrators for Wikipedia and teaches English as a second language. So, now it’s your turn Adam. Welcome to English Experts.Hello, I would like to write today about idioms. Idioms, according to the American Heritage Dictionary are speech forms that are in peculiar to themselves within the usage of a given language, or in layman’s terms, untranslatable phrases. I would like to give you today 13 idiomatic expressions that I have selected. (one for each letter of the alphabet A-M). In my next installment, you will be able to read 13 more idioms to complete the alphabet.
A - apple of my eye
My definition: The apple of your eye is someone that you adore.
Example sentence: You are the apple of my eye.
B - back seat driver
My definition: A back seat driver is someone who gives unwanted criticism to the driver of a vehicle about the way they drive. I suppose that the back seat driver could be in the front as a passenger, but traditionally, the person is behind the driver.
Example sentence: Whenever my mother rides in my car, she becomes a back seat driver.
C - catch-22
My definition: A contradictory statement or situation; a paradox.
Example sentence: I would like to work in Information Technology, but there is a catch-22. I can’t work in IT if I don’t have any experience, and I can’t get any experience if I don’t work in the field.
D - dropping like flies
My definition: Suddenly falling dead or ill in large numbers.
Example sentence: The football players were dropping like flies on that hot summer day.
E - excuse my French
My definition: Something you can say to ask for an apology after swearing.
Example sentence: Excuse my brother’s French, he didn’t realize the company that he was in.
F - face the music
My definition: To receive the consequences of one’s actions.
Example sentence: The criminal was a fugitive for nearly ten years. He was caught yesterday, and now it’s time for him to face the music.
G - go the extra mile
My definition: To go above and beyond what is expected of you.
Example sentence: Barbara’s going the extra mile finally paid off this year when she received a nice raise.
H - hell in a handbasket
My definition: This is what happens when everything goes wrong.
Example sentence: In the plant supervisors’ absence, the plant went to hell in a handbasket. Production decreased by 50%.
I - I wash my hands of it
My definition: To be done with something, to be blameless.
Example sentence: There were many executives of the Enron Corporation that tried to wash their hands of their role in the company’s demise, but it was too late.
J - jaywalking
My definition: To cross the street away from crosswalks.
Example sentence: Jaywalking can get you a fine on the West Coast of the US, but the police “turn a blind eye” to it on the East Coast.
K - kick the bucket
My definition: To die.
Example sentence: My neighbor finally kicked the bucket when he was 105 years old.
L - last but not least
My definition: When a series of names is read, one can say, “last but not least.” This means that the final name read is no less important than the ones read before it.
Example sentence: And, last but not least, I present to you Emily who is a national Rhodes Scholar.
M - murphy’s Law
My definition: Anything that can go wrong will go wrong.
Example sentence: It’s Murphy’s Law that a buttered piece of toast always lands butter side down.
See idiomsite for a full list of idioms and etymologies.
Until next time,
Adam
Next: 13 Idioms - From N to Z
In my most recent posts I have been talking about different kinds of talk we engage in. There are some verbal expressions involving the word talk and an adjective or adverb.To sweet talk someone is to flatter them and say nice things in order to manipulate them in some way. When a person is in the wrong and gets caught, he may try to sweet talk his way out of the negative consequences. “Don’t try to sweet talk me” is a standard response when the person who was wronged does not want to be charmed into forgetting about his or her injury. A man may try to sweet talk a woman (feed her sentimental or flattering pick-up lines) to get a date.
Fast talking is talking slick, using smooth lines to persuade or convince or mislead or get (obtain) something. Salesmen are accused of fast talking potential customers to boost sales. Usage: “He tried to fast talk me into making a deal that I didn’t want because it was not in my best interest.”
Baby talk is gaa, gaa, goo, goo or speech that imitates the way babies sound when they try to communicate (emerging developmental speech sounds). Baby talk is also called motherese when used by adults addressing infants and is sometimes used between lovers affectionately.
Girl talk conversation that interests women. We talk about make-up, fashion, life issues such as menopause, raising children, and even men.
Happy talk according to wikipedia is the upbeat commentary that news anchors use during news broadcasts to transition from one news story to the next. Last night on the news I heard them mention “happy talk” as a synonym for politicians putting a “positive spin” on negative events.
Double talk is meaningless, ambiguous verbalizing used by politicians and salesmen to distract or impress potential clients or constituents.
Beijinhos,
Mary
Today is Easter Sunday. We are having record cold weather here in Denver, Colorado with snow, so the children’s Easter egg hunt will be moved indoors. My mother, the matriarch of the family, is planning a special egg hunt to augment the traditional hunt (with boiled and colored Easter eggs). Her egg hunt will use plastic eggs which she has filled with coins for a special treat for her great grandkids.
There is a well visited tourist attraction in the area I am visiting called Red Rocks with an amphitheatre made from special type of red colored flagstone rocks. Traditionally on Easter, they offer a Sunrise Easter Service. The spectacular mountain view enhances the Easter religious experience.
Denver is the Mile High city because its altitude lies one mile above sea level. So, Denverites are one mile closer to Heaven than others–just kidding. hehe The air is noticeably thinner here at this high altitude. People who move here from lower altitudes can feel short of breath when they exert themselves physically (climbing stairs or hiking up the mountains). Athletes who trained here for the Olympics had an advantage because they were accustomed to performing in the thin air could compete well in the thin air and even better in air of normal density.
Denver is famous for the Rocky Mountains with its National Parks. White water rafting, skiing, mountain climbing, snow boarding, hiking, boating, fishing (mountain stream trout is delicious) are some activities that attract the locals and tourists as well. Last time I was here, I visited the grave of Buffalo Bill, an American rodeo performer, an authentic ghost town that has been restored, The Garden of the Gods, Cave of the Winds, Royal Gorge, and stayed in a cabin in Vale Colorado. Yes, there was a science conference in Vale where my husband was a speaker. All of our travels are linked to math conferences. Hehe I will be seeing some of you this May and June when my husband’s math travels bring him back to the math institute in Rio de Janeiro, Brasil.
Have a blessed Easter, everyone!
ttyl (talk to you later),
Mary
Here in the US it is popular for the family to dress up in their best clothes on Easter and go to church. After church children decorate and color eggs. There are special dyes sold for coloring the Easter eggs. Each child receives an Easter basket and is told that the Easter Bunny brought the basket as a gift. The Easter basket is filled with chocolate eggs and Bunnies and small toys. The family has a big meal, like at a family reunion. All the grandparents, aunts and uncles and sometimes out of town relatives travel to go to the Easter celebration. After the meal, the children have an Easter Egg Hunt. The eggs that they had colored are hidden in the garden, and they search for them. The one who finds the most, is the winner.