Além dessa definição apresentada pelo Donay, uma expressão mais geral que envolve todas as situações é:
"To have a go"
"That girl was so drunk last night that everybody, including me, had a go at her".
There's a passage in the film "Notting Hill" when Rhys Ifans asks Hugh Grant about a emotionally cut-up Julia Roberts (who wasn't drunk, I must say), 'Can I have a go?' and the answer was, obviously, 'No'.