Having it - Tradução em português

Qual seria a tradução dessa frase: 'and where we were having it.'

Quais sentidos having it poderia assumir?

A pessoa estava relembrando de coisas do passado.

'e onde estávamos tendo' parece estranho.

It was very special to us that she knew when and where we were having it and that a little piece of her could be there on the day...

When Kathy died I called up there to Rosie Honeyman in Seneca, and told her about that happening, when the funeral would be and where we were having it.

Obrigado pela ajuda.