Coffee without sugar x Coffee with no sugar x Coffee with sugar

Hi guys, wazzup?!
A few days ago I was watching a video on YouTube and the Uncle Beto teacher said it was incorrect the sentence "coffee without sugar" and he also said that we have to use "coffee and milk" and not "coffee with milk" because, He said:" o café ñ é amiguinho do açúcar!...
1 - Are Both frases in the subject correct?
2 - Can we use "coffee with milk; bread with butter..." or only "coffee and milk; bread and butter"?
P.S. I found the frase "coffee with milk" on my online course.